So you want to learn Italian, but you don’t know where to start or what the best way to go about it is. Correct?
As an Italian who has seen many people around me learn the language in different ways, I’d like to help by pointing you in the right direction.
In this post, I’ll tell you how to learn Italian on your own in two ways—one slower, natural, and fun; the other more systematic and academic but still enjoyable.
I’ll also answer common questions, give you a free plan to follow for your Italian learning journey, and list useful resources to help you along the way.
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How Bad Do You Want It? Your Mindset and Attitude Are Everything!
Not everyone might need to hear this, but many will, so it’s important we start here.
Why do you want to learn Italian?
How bad do you want it?
How much effort are you willing to put in?
How committed are you?
How fast do you want to learn?
Is there anything at stake, or a specific goal or timeframe you need to meet?
Asking yourself these questions will help you reflect and frame your mindset around this topic. I don’t want to scare anyone off, but I want to make it clear that with everything in life, your results depend on your efforts.
That said, learning Italian can be as fun, as natural, and fulfilling as you want it to be. So don’t give up now!
Once you’ve answered those questions, you might want to define what level of Italian you want to reach.
Do you want to understand it, speak a few words and sentences for traveling to Italy, or do you want to be able to communicate with new friends and family, and perhaps become fully proficient at the end of your journey?
Think about it and then choose the route that sounds best to you.
Option 1 – Start a slow long journey of learning the Italian language, and perhaps its culture, because you love Italy and everything Italian. Maybe, you also want to live there later on in life.
Option 2 – Learn Italian fast with a specific goal and timeframe in mind.
It’s important you choose the best path for you, as later on in this post I will give you a plan for each option.

Is It Possible To Learn Italian By Yourself?
Yes, it is, but it depends on several factors.
Let me start by saying that I have witnessed myself learning a new language to the point I could write it and speak it fluently every day. I am not referring to Italian, nor English. It’s actually a much harder language than either of those.
I have also observed my Scottish husband learn Italian to the point he is now fully able to book his taxi or a restaurant on the phone, order food, go do the shopping on his own, chat with people, and he continues learning daily.
These are the factors I am referring to:
1. Your age – learning a new language is much easier when you are young, especially if you start as a kid. That doesn’t however mean you can’t do it later in life.
2. Your environment – do you have friends and family that speak the language? Immersion is the best way to learn a language naturally, without too much effort, and also while having fun doing it.
3. Your learning abilities – we can all learn, no matter our age and backgrounds, but for some of us it might be easier while for others a little more difficult. By learning ability I mean how quickly do you usually learn, do you have a learning difficulty, do you have a good memory, etc? You can still get there. You might need to adjust your timing expectations, and perhaps get a little more help.
4. Your motivation – are you someone who is driven, and can get himself or herself from point A to B without any help? Or do you need people to always push you and remind you of your goals, and the reasons behind them?
5. Your goal – what’s the ultimate goal for learning Italian? Do you have one? Can you see it? Is it strong enough to get you going until you reach your milestones?
If all these factors line up, learning Italian will be very easy for you. If one or more don’t it might get a little more complicated, and require the help of others, or more time to get there. You can get there nonetheless!
I would however suggest getting some form of tutor or enrolling into a course, if you find it difficult to learn a new skill on your own, or if you lack the motivation or drive to do it alone.
Best Italian Courses
I am still looking for the best one, so keep checking. If you are set on starting today, try one of these.
For now, here are three popular recommendations I can give you:
Most complete: ROCKET ITALIAN (one time, $99.95 discounted price from $150 for Level 1)
Old school: PRIMSLEUR (one time, $120 for Level 1)
Unique method: ITALIAN UNCOVERED (one time, $297 with FREE TRIAL)
How To Learn Italian On Your Own – Step By Step Plans
As I mentioned earlier there are two ways I suggest you go about learning Italian, and I am going to give you a step by step plan for each. So pick your preferred route, follow the plan, and get started!

Plan 1: Learn Italian Slowly & Naturally
If you have chosen this path you are in for a life of Italian learning. Have fun!
I am going to share the story of how my Scottish husband learned Italian through immersion and continues doing so.
Ryan met Alessia years and years ago. At that time he didn’t know any Italian. He fell in love, started dating, and quickly became part of Alessia’s Italian family. He ate dinner with that family almost every day for 7 years, spending hours every day listening to Nino (Alessia’s dad), Francesca (Alessia’s mum), and Stefany (Alessia’s sister) chatting in a mix of Sicilian and Italian.
He even started watching Italian TV with them in the evening.
After a couple of years, Alessia suggested him to study for the Italian O level exam, and helped him prepare for that.
After a trial or two, he managed to pass. Please keep in mind Ryan is dyslexic, but he still did it!
Then, Alessia and Ryan moved in together, got married, and they started speaking more in English than Italian. But Ryan kept watching Italian TV programs – like Uomini e Donne, Amici, and C’e’ Posta Per Te – every evening. He still does!
Whenever they went on Italian trips, Alessia pushed Ryan to speak Italian by asking him to call for a taxi, go to the grocery shop, and order his food. She still does!
Ryan is now getting more and more fluent in speaking Italian, although he has no specific goal and timeframe to become proficient. For him, it’s a fun lifelong journey.

Do you want to learn Italian like Ryan?
Go find an Italian girlfriend!
I am joking, although that would really help (ha ha).
How about you find an Italian friend or two, or start working at an Italian restaurant or cafe, especially if you are still young.
If you are older, self-employed, or can embrace a nomad lifestyle, I would suggest you to go spend from 3 months up to 1 year in Italy.
Immersion is the best way to learn Italian in a fun and natural way. Depending on how serious and smart you are, it can also happen fast.
If neither of those suggestions work for you, follow the steps below.
Step 1
Start reading Italian books daily.
Start listening to Italian podcasts daily (see recommendations under Plan 2).
Start watching Italian TV, series, or movies daily. You can do this also on Netflix, but I suggest watching Italian TV. You might need to get a specific box or use a VPN.
Start following Italian people on Instagram and TikTok, and listen to them speaking in Italian daily.
Step 2
Practice daily as you listen, read and watch. It can be just repeating a few words and sentences, understanding and memorizing their meaning.
If you need help with this, I suggest this app.
Step 3
Find ways to immerse yourself in person.
With time finding friends, or taking frequent trips to Italy, will be the best way to learn to speak Italian.
You could also get an Italian tutor.
Try Preply Online Italian Tutors.
Step 4
Keep doing all the above until you feel more and more confident.
Step 5
If you want to learn the grammar and to write in Italian, or if you decide to get a certification down the line, follow Plan 2 below.

Plan 2: Learn Italian Fast & Systematically
Choosing this path means you are up for a challenge or two, you are willing to put some elbow grease because you have a clear goal and want to achieve it within a specific timeframe. You can do this!
Step 1
Gather your resources and tools.
First, bookmark the Language section of my website.
Check out this other Italian language website: Learn Italian Pod
Subscribe to this newsletter: Daily Italian Words
Learn on Youtube: with Lucrezia
Buy an Italian Grammar Book:
Learn Italian Fast for Adult Beginners (on Amazon)
A1 Italian Complete Course (on Amazon)
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Buy from these Italian Bestseller Reading Books:
These are more intermediate learners, but you can start reading 10 minutes a day as practice. You will later be able to read and understand fully.
Fiabe Italiane by Italo Calvino (Old Italian fables)
Seta by Alessandro Baricco (Classic Romance)
La Ragazza Nascosta (Fashion, Success & Love Story)
La Bella e il Campione (Sports, Grief & Love Story)
Harry Potter Book 1
Lord of the Rings
La Vacanza Perfetta (Thriller on holiday)
Gli Omicidi dei Tarocchi (Thriller in Trieste, Fortune Telling)
La Ragazza della Nebbia (Thriller in the Italian Alps)
Step 2
Make a schedule of how much time you will dedicate to learning Italian weekly, set the days and time, and make sure you can focus on this as if it was an important job task.
I suggest dedicating 30 minutes to 1 hr daily in a less structured way. You can do this while doing something else. Start by using this time by learning new Italian words. You could do it during your workout.
On top of that, you should fit in two to three longer learning sessions of at least 2 hours each. During these sessions you should focus on learning the grammar, writing, and exercises.
Step 3
Start learning.
Grammar
Follow your Grammar book, and supplement your learning with the online resources (websites and Youtube channel) I have linked above.
Speaking
Start with simple words.
Move to more complex ones.
Continue with simple sentences.
Move to longer conversations.
You can listen to this on Youtube, or through podcasts.
Italian Podcasts:
Learn with Lucrezia
Coffee Break Italian

Writing
The best way to start is to write what you are saying or thinking in Italian.
You can then move to writing stories or essays about various topics.
If you get stuck and need ideas, ask ChatGPT to give you a prompt based on your Italian level.
Step 4
Practice.
You can buy Italian practice workbooks, find free exercises online, take online tests, and also ask ChatGPT to help you practice.
Practice with a friend or family member, if you can.
Start speaking alone, and in public. If you live in the US, or in a non Italian speaking country, find an Italian cafe or shop, go regularly, and engage in conversations with the owners and other Italian people.
Online Italian Tests:
Europass Italian Test
Online Italian Club
Scuola Italia
Step 5
Keep track and keep yourself accountable.
You should keep a diary and take note of what you are learning and when, your progress, and any results. You can also use it as an Italian learning journal, if that’s your vibe. Journaling can help you clarify your way forward.
Reward yourself with a wonderful Italian meal from time to time. You can also use it as an occasion to practice. Book an Italian holiday, so you have something to motivate you and to look forward to.
Learn Italian Language FAQ
Before I end this, I’d like to answer a few common questions you might have around the topic. I hope you found your answers.
Is it hard to learn Italian?
Italian is not considered a difficult language to learn—quite the opposite. As an English speaker, you’ll find that Italian is actually one of the easier languages to pick up, thanks to its phonetic spelling and shared Latin roots. That said, your personal experience will depend on your background, learning style, motivation, and how naturally you connect with the language and culture.
Can I learn Italian in 3 months?
I’m always skeptical when I hear claims about becoming fluent in a language in just a few months, especially if you’re starting from zero. In three months, you can definitely learn the basics and start forming simple sentences, but true fluency takes time and consistency. If your goal is to become proficient, think long term—this is a journey, not a quick fix.
How do I learn Italian the quickest way?
Immersion is by far the most effective and quickest way to learn Italian. Surround yourself with the language—listen to Italian music, watch Italian shows or YouTube channels, read books or news, and most importantly, speak it as much as you can. The more you live in the language, the faster it becomes second nature.
In what order should I learn Italian?
If you’re wondering whether to focus on speaking or writing first, I always recommend starting with speaking. Getting comfortable with pronunciation, listening, and conversational phrases builds a strong foundation. Of course, you can also develop your writing skills alongside, but speaking gives you the confidence to interact and improves your understanding more quickly.
How long does it take to learn Italian by yourself?
There’s no single answer—it really depends on your level of commitment, consistency, available time, and how immersive your learning methods are. If you study regularly and use a mix of speaking, listening, and reading, you could become conversational in a year or two. Full fluency might take anywhere from 2 to 10 years, or more, depending on your approach and goals.
How would I learn Italian if I could start over?
If I were starting from scratch, I’d still choose a mix of approaches. You can absolutely learn on your own with the right tools and mindset. Taking a structured course can help with grammar and accountability, while immersion—through media, travel, or conversation—accelerates understanding. Ideally, combine all three for a well-rounded and sustainable learning experience.

Italian Language Resources
My blog is not focused on teaching the Italian language. However, as a native Italian I have written different lessons that can help you start learning the grammar, common words and phrases, practice your pronunciation with my recordings, and test your learning with fun exercises.
I am going to list all the resources on this blog in the order I suggest learning them. I hope this helps you.
Italian Lessons On This Blog
WORDS & PHRASES
Must Learn Italian Phrases For Travel
200 Common Italian Words
Italian Christmas Words
Italian Christmas Greetings & Phrases
Italian Clothes Words
70 Beautiful Italian Words
Italian Food Words
Italian Food Sayings
Beginner Italian Lessons
Italian Alphabet
Definite Articles
Italian Spelling
Italian Numbers
Italian Days of the Week
More Words Lessons
Dove (Where in Italian)
Cosa (What in Italian)
Good Morning In Italian
Good Night In Italian
How Are You In Italian
Please In Italian
Congratulations in Italian
VERBS
Italian ARE Verbs
Italian ERE Verbs
Italian IRE Verbs
Essere (To be)
Avere (To have)
Fare (To do)
Dare (To give)
Andare (To go)
Stare (To stay)
Dire (To say)
Italian Reflexive Verbs
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Thank you so much!
Forza e coraggio,
Alessia
(PS: Forza e coraggio is an Italian expression that translates to strength and courage, but means more like come on, you’ve got this!)


